4) When you say you like confident guys what does that exactly mean? Like I make all the decisions and take my needs and wants over yours? I have to be a super alpha male and I have to be the dominant leader of all things? Does this mean you expect me to make the first move? Never get nervous or worried? You expect me to always have the right things to say?

5) Do women look for excitement and coolness-factor before they go for substance and character? In all honesty, do I have to be a dancing  monkey first before I become boyfriend material?

6) Do I have to ask girls out when people aren't around, or when her friends aren't around? Or when people aren't around in general. It's just a theory I have, but every time I've asked a girl out she gets all nervous and looks around whenever I've asked and there's people around.

7) I've hooked up with a girl one time who said that she had a boyfriend early in the evening, but then after we did it, I asked her about it and she said she didn't know why she said that and she doesn't really have a boyfriend. I think she knew but she didn't want to tell me. Why do girls say they have a boyfriend when they don't, and then hookup after saying they have a boyfriend for the purpose of getting me off their case? It just doesn't make sense.

8) Does online dating work?



9) What's the worst thing that has happened after you've asked someone out (to guys obviously)? What's been the worst rejection you've given a guy and what for? I find it very hard to be on the recieving end of rejection? How do you guys deal with the rejection?

10) Does going up to a girl and saying "hi" really work? I mean, ok, I say "hi" and then what? It's weird to go up to somebody and just start talking about...what exactly? What if I started talking about the indy french movie I just saw. How do I even bring that up to a complete stranger?

10) I'm a fairly quiet person and I don't really like talking about things that don't really interest me. But for some reason people find silence to be really nerve racking? Do you girls find silence awkward? Does that mean it's not a good date if you're not talking?

11) If I do start talking about the things that interest me, I come off all weird and nerdy and geeky, so what the hell, it's like I don't have any options. It's like I get scared to ask questions which I think are going to be percieved as weird or stupid, but crap, it's either that or silence. Any tips or advice on this?

12) Guys, I'm sure I'm not alone but when I talk to a girl I'm not attracted to I can be myself and funny and not really care if she likes me or not. The girl I don't like ends up liking me but I don't like her. But as soon as I talk to a girl I'm attracted to things, go 180. I get all nervous, quiet, and start sweating. Um...I just wanted to know if other dudes realize this about themselves.

This is all I can think of right now. So please help me everyone, you're my only hope.